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Surgery Eve

Posted on February 3, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

We are on the eve of Jello’s surgery (more exciting than Christmas Eve). It is time for his chest reconstruction. Things are so hectic right now (father was in and out of ICU, work stresses, etc) that it didn’t really … Continue reading →

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Time is moving quick

Posted on January 21, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

It is official, Jello has been approved for surgery and is scheduled for February 4, 2016. This is fantastic news, but also very anxiety ridden. We had just thought it would be four or six weeks and more time for … Continue reading →

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Masculinity

Posted on January 16, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

Today I was leaning over the sink and shaving part of my face (I currently have muttonchops or what Jello calls office chops because I don’t let it grow very long). It dawned on me that it was weird I … Continue reading →

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Public Affection when you are suddenly, openly, queer

Posted on January 12, 2016 by Wolsey

I started dating my husband when I was a late teenager. I also was incredibly feminine in appearance. This meant, for the world, we were a heterosexual couple. We were read that way by everyone for decades. Even when I … Continue reading →

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Quick update

Posted on January 10, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

Just a quick update, we upgraded the plan for the website, we have an official domain name… http://accidentallygay.com.

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Sexual Identity

Posted on January 10, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I have been thinking a lot about the article we were in recently. The article has caused Jello and I to talk about my outlook on relationships and sexuality. I have gotten some responses on whether my journey is just … Continue reading →

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Thank You

Posted on January 10, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

First, I wanted to just say thank you to Roni for being so nice during the interview process, but most importantly to thank all of you. Everyone (well almost everyone 🙂 ), has been really supportive and I have gotten … Continue reading →

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Article of us in NYMag

Posted on January 6, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

Jello and I got interviewed a couple of weeks ago by Roni Jacobson for NYMag.com. I really liked talking with Roni, I probably should have been clearer and not so hesitant in responding. If you are interested, you can find … Continue reading →

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Holidays

Posted on December 28, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

Christmas has never gone well in our household. In the beginning (and for many years) Jello and I were expected to show up at two households (not quite true, my parents only asked we show at one holiday during the … Continue reading →

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Pronouns

Posted on December 3, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

My experience in the transgender world has shown that the use (or misuse) of pronouns is a tricky subject. I have been really lucky, in the last two years I have almost without fail used the right pronouns and didn’t slip into … Continue reading →

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