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Tag Archives: work
Bye Bye DoD
It has been awhile since we talked and I figured I would catch you all up on at least part of our life. Things have been incredibly busy. The hubby is incredibly happy that he no longer works for the … Continue reading
Safer
First, let me be very very clear, passing or not passing as most people call it has no reflection on the person who is trans, and this isn’t meant as a judgment of that, rather if someone “passes” they are … Continue reading
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Tagged passing, safety, work
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Evidently its not a same-sex marriage.
Evidently I am not really in a same-sex marriage according to some of my coworkers. Last week I flew down to Atlanta for training. Once again for those who don’t know, I work for the Department of Defense auditing Defense … Continue reading
More changes
Bottom surgery has always been on the table for Wolsey. When he first came out to me he wasn’t sure if he wanted it, but he had asked if I would be ok with. I told him that of course … Continue reading
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Tagged healthcare, politics, surgery, transition, work
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More work stuff.
I should quit assuming most conservative people are capable of logical thought. Maybe they aren’t nice people, maybe they have repugnant views, but at least in the workplace they should keep it to themselves. Thursday another uncomfortable conversation come up. … Continue reading
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Tagged bathroom laws, dave, pence, trump, work
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Gentle and Kind
There are some coworkers who I don’t write about. Not because they are homophobic, or an ally, but just because I don’t work with them much. Some of those people sit by themselves, keep to themselves and they are definitely … Continue reading
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Sometimes prejudice works for you
Wolsey and I have worked together most of our lives. Usually we job hop, one of us would find a decent job, or at least one that we can tolerate, and the other will get hired on. We have done … Continue reading
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DoD Human Resources
For the last year and a half we have had a running battle with Group Health over his gender designation. Don’t get me wrong they have covered everything so far for his transition, but no matter what we do his … Continue reading
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Tagged encounters, events, healthcare, work
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Diversity versus “Diversity”
We had diversity day at my job. I work for a giant government agency, and they do this once a year. My job is pretty positive if you are of the LGBT flavor. We have a lot of us in … Continue reading
Ghost Fade
I just got back from my recent Atlanta trip for training and I have a couple of stories. The first one deals with my classmates and I will talk here. Previously I have had really good experience with a lot … Continue reading