Author Archives: Wolsey

About Wolsey

I am a middle aged man. I am an author and a maker.

Working while transgender

Posted on March 7, 2018 by Wolsey

I thought I’d share some of my experiences in my most recent adventure in working while openly transgender. As most of you probably have gathered, my husband and I work for an agency in the Department of Defense, and this … Continue reading →

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Prosecutor: Parents’ refusal of transgender treatment made teen suicidal

Posted on January 28, 2018 by Wolsey

Originally posted on Second Hand Outrage:
From the article: According to Clancy, the teen’s parents spent the entire case “trying to show that their child is not transgender.”“A reasonable parent,” he said, “would never tell their own child to kill…

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When transgender celebrities misgender other transgender people

Posted on November 25, 2017 by Wolsey

I knew my husband was upset when he IM’d me at work, and asked if I had listened to the latest Savage Love podcast #577 with Buck Angel. I knew someone, either Dan or Buck had probably said something shitty … Continue reading →

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On the Visibility of Harassment

Posted on October 16, 2017 by Wolsey

The Harvey Weinstein issue has been hitting the front page of the internet, and I have been reading a lot of reactions to men who say they didn’t see it. Because I lived for 40 years as a woman and … Continue reading →

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TMI: Intimacy now

Posted on September 17, 2017 by Wolsey

I figure I have gotten enough PM questions that I can give a general overview of things, but don’t worry there aren’t any gruesome details. I also have some more future thoughts I want to write about, and I think … Continue reading →

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8/11/17 Background Radiation

Posted on August 11, 2017 by Wolsey

Let’s take a look at the terrible news things this week. In Transgender Military Ban news, we have a lot going on. It looks like Trump is congratulating himself on the new policy he created banning transgender active duty soldiers … Continue reading →

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8/4/2017 Background Radiation

Posted on August 4, 2017 by Wolsey

Let’s see what kind of caustic hateful Background Radiation has my dander up this week. First, before I get into anything else, we’ve had another death in the transgender community. Pink News reports: Black trans woman killed in the US … Continue reading →

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7/28/2017 Background Radiation

Posted on July 28, 2017 by Wolsey

This was a big week. I’m not even sure this counts as background radiation at this point. It’s an outright attack on transgender people. Whether from bigotry, or shallow political showmanship, it’s still a deep cut at allowing transgender people … Continue reading →

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7/21/17 Background Radiation

Posted on July 21, 2017 by Wolsey

Below is a list of the top stories that made it through the cacophony of anti-LGBT news stories this week. I like to call this constant stream of hate filled instances Background Radiation, because we have to live with it. … Continue reading →

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7/14/17 Background Radiation

Posted on July 14, 2017 by Wolsey

Below is a list of the top stories that made it through the cacophony of anti-LGBT news stories this week. I like to call this constant stream of hate filled instances Background Radiation, because we have to live with it. … Continue reading →

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