Tag Archives: privilege

Gendered Doorways

Posted on August 8, 2016 by Wolsey

I am bad at doors. I’ve always had some weird issues with doors previous to my transition, but it’s a lot worse now. Let’s be clear, I am a capable human, and can walk through a door, but when you … Continue reading →

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A Change in Demographic Data

Posted on May 1, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

This week was the first time ever that I had to select the box of being in “same sex” marriage and that I was officially in the LGBTA community. In fact this happened twice. Not that anything suddenly changed this week, … Continue reading →

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Bikini Barista Time

Posted on April 17, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

Last week Jello and I were out looking at new apartments to move into. We scoured all of the surrounding Seattle areas and ended up a little out of the way at a gas station. The gas station had one … Continue reading →

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Passing and Sexism

Posted on October 10, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Today we had to buy a certified Kia for Jello. He got a temp job and needs to get to it. While we were getting the car however, an awkward situation arose. We were in the car when the salesman … Continue reading →

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OkCupid Wha?

Posted on October 7, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Just a brief bit of background, Jello and I have been on and off poly for most of our marriage. I haven’t found anyone I really want to split my time with him with, but it is always a possibility. … Continue reading →

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Sunday Surprise

Posted on October 6, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Yesterday was a surprise to me, a good surprise. Jello and I ended up going to Red Robin to grab a couple burgers and beer. We showed up and there was a line of three other groups waiting to be … Continue reading →

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A little nervous

Posted on August 3, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

I realize my posts about the transition/LGBT stuff has been sporadic lately. It is due to Jello’s graduating and looking for work, the fact that I got told my current job is ending possibly in three months and overall stress. … Continue reading →

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Unlearning privilege

Posted on July 3, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Last Sunday Jello and I went to a local breakfast place for a nice Sunday breakfast. The last time we had been there was a couple years ago (long before Jello’s transition started). We got out of the car and … Continue reading →

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Privilege and PDAs

Posted on May 11, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

There has been an unexpected consequence with my husband’s transition. My husband and I have always had different levels of acceptance of public displays of affection. I have always been very touchy feely. I love holding his hand, hugging him … Continue reading →

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Jello passes!

Posted on April 29, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Saturday was a first, the first time ever that Jello was assumed to be a boy when we went out together. We walked over to a local breakfast diner and sat and had brunch. It was a great time, just hanging … Continue reading →

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