Author Archives: AccidentallyGay

Tearing Each Other Apart

I am tired of the whole “not trans enough” debacle that I sometimes see. The gatekeeping done by some people to tell others they haven’t done enough to be considered their identified gender. It just smacks of hypocrisy, and another … Continue reading

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Rough few weeks

I have been quiet the last couple weeks because of many things. First, I broke my foot a week ago last Tuesday in a stupid cubicle fall at work. It wasn’t my worst experience but that knocked me out for … Continue reading

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Changes with authorship

Just letting everyone know that Jello has not left the blog, but with the publishing of the book coming up he decided to coalesce his online presence and now Jello writes under “The Wolsey Blog”. Same wonderful husband, same awesome … Continue reading

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Unisex Bathrooms

This post is only tangentially related to LGBTQIA, but I figure it may be beneficial to any trans*men who are transitioning and haven’t gotten much experience in traditional men’s bathrooms. This last Saturday I went to Geek Girl Con. A … Continue reading

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TMI: Intimacy now

I figure I have gotten enough PM questions that I can give a general overview of things, but don’t worry there aren’t any gruesome details. I also have some more future thoughts I want to write about, and I think … Continue reading

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Final Appeal

We finally got notice from OPM (federal government human resources basically) saying they received our final appeal and will give us an answer in 60 days. Sadly this is about 14 days after we have to make payment and we … Continue reading

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It keeps getting rougher.

A lot of things have been happening, lots of little things, and I think I will just address them individually. So right now I will start with the most angry/frustrating thing I can think of. Trump’s ban on transgender in … Continue reading

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