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Is it different now?
I have always been a gamer. I love video games, tabletop miniature games and especially running roleplaying games. I have done the first and last (video and roleplaying) my entire life. The needed pieces for those games is easy to … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged about me, events, homophobia, photos, transphobia
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You are so great!
I never thought I would say it, but I hate any variation of “you are so great”, “you are so patient”, or just about any other phrase that someone makes saying how great a person I am for staying with … Continue reading
Masculinity
Today I was leaning over the sink and shaving part of my face (I currently have muttonchops or what Jello calls office chops because I don’t let it grow very long). It dawned on me that it was weird I … Continue reading
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Tagged about me, anxiety, competition, masculinity
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Sexual Identity
I have been thinking a lot about the article we were in recently. The article has caused Jello and I to talk about my outlook on relationships and sexuality. I have gotten some responses on whether my journey is just … Continue reading
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Tagged about me, anxiety, demisexuality, sexuality, thoughts
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Article of us in NYMag
Jello and I got interviewed a couple of weeks ago by Roni Jacobson for NYMag.com. I really liked talking with Roni, I probably should have been clearer and not so hesitant in responding. If you are interested, you can find … Continue reading
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Tagged about me, events, jello, Media Coverage, news, transition
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An Introduction of sorts
I thought, if I was going to write a bit about my experiences on this blog, that I would give everyone a brief history of my transition story. I came out as transgender when I was 40. I have always … Continue reading
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Tagged about me, ftm, introduction, jello, transgender
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Do I miss who my husband used to be?
I got a question over on Tumblr (I always want people to ask any questions that come to mind) the following: Anonymous said to accidentally-gay: Do you ever miss the person your husband use to be? I had to think about … Continue reading
Love Wins
It happened folks, Jello and I are now legally married no matter what state we are in. Ok, there are a few places that are still fighting it, but after clerks are sued into the ground that will end quick enough. … Continue reading
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Tagged about me, anxiety, events, ftm marriage, marriage, Media Coverage, transition, work
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A Glimpse
It is funny, I hadn’t even thought about this incident until today’s Throwback Thursday. Back in 1997 (when I was a young 26), before I went to college, I worked at Value Village. The place was mostly women (I think … Continue reading
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A Personal Update
I wanted to give a little reasoning to how quiet this blog has been (in addition to just being really busy). I have indicated before that I am in the trans spectrum as well, but have never progressed into addressing … Continue reading