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Blog Endings
Hi Everyone, I know it has been awhile since I have posted. I didn’t want to detract from the message or sentiments in this blog with my life changes, but life does change and enough people have contacted me in … Continue reading
Published and the Future!
Hey everyone, it finally happened they published our book. I think it is a pretty cool little thing, basically Wolsey and I’s takedown of the selected posts. It was a nice way to package up the first phase of his … Continue reading
Bye Bye DoD
It has been awhile since we talked and I figured I would catch you all up on at least part of our life. Things have been incredibly busy. The hubby is incredibly happy that he no longer works for the … Continue reading
Book Update
I had a couple of people email me asking about the book so I will give a quick update. The editing got pushed back until next week due to other publisher changes (other books not ours). So it is still … Continue reading
Safer
First, let me be very very clear, passing or not passing as most people call it has no reflection on the person who is trans, and this isn’t meant as a judgment of that, rather if someone “passes” they are … Continue reading
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Published in LGBTQ Queer Culture Journal MELK
Ok, I am a liar. I post that I am not posting anymore and what happens, here I am again. I am officially a published author, by a real publisher and not a vanity publish. This isn’t the book deal we … Continue reading
Thank you.
I cannot express how thankful I am to everyone past and present who has been so supportive here. Wolsey’s transition was the biggest thing to happen in my life up until now and with the lack of sources for husbands … Continue reading
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Working while transgender
I thought I’d share some of my experiences in my most recent adventure in working while openly transgender. As most of you probably have gathered, my husband and I work for an agency in the Department of Defense, and this … Continue reading
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Evidently its not a same-sex marriage.
Evidently I am not really in a same-sex marriage according to some of my coworkers. Last week I flew down to Atlanta for training. Once again for those who don’t know, I work for the Department of Defense auditing Defense … Continue reading
Unexpected Increased Anxiety
I have noticed something since Wolsey’s transition, my anxiety over how I look has gotten worse, and I assume it is because of the media and how they portray gay couples. Hot looking guys with other hot looking guys. While … Continue reading