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Tag Archives: jello
A Barbershop Encounter
Last week Wolsey and I had a very awkward encounter at the barber shop after work (yes I said an actual barber shop, ran by two very nice Asian ladies). We were both sitting there in the two chairs when … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged awkward, encounters, homophobia, jello
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Transgender Day of Remembrance 2016
Transgender day of Remembrance is today. It’s a day to remember all of the transgender people that are murdered throughout the year. This year 295 transgender and gender diverse individuals were murdered. 23 (some other sites report 24) of those … Continue reading
In support of Safety Pins
I’ve seen a lot of posts about the safety pin as a symbol of allyship. Even the New York Times has been talking about it. http://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/14/fashion/safety-pin-ally-activism.html?_r=0 However, not everyone is okay with this, seeing it as more straight white allyship … Continue reading
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Tagged anxiety, ftm, homophobia, jello, transphobia
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Diversity versus “Diversity”
We had diversity day at my job. I work for a giant government agency, and they do this once a year. My job is pretty positive if you are of the LGBT flavor. We have a lot of us in … Continue reading
Gendered Doorways
I am bad at doors. I’ve always had some weird issues with doors previous to my transition, but it’s a lot worse now. Let’s be clear, I am a capable human, and can walk through a door, but when you … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Jello's Articles
Tagged ftm, gender, gender expectations, Gendered Expectations, jello, privilege
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Parents and Pronouns
My mom passed away this week on my parents 46th wedding anniversary due to long term health concerns and a broken heart (my father passed away in February just a couple days before Valentine’s Day). Both were on hospice for … Continue reading
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Tagged events, family, jello, parents, passing, photos, pronouns
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2016 Pride Seattle
This year marked the first year that I have ever gone to a pride parade. My friends, Lisa and Vince, brought us with them. Honestly, Lisa did the planning, and my husband and I arrived at their house at the … Continue reading
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Tagged acceptance, discrimination, events, intolerance, jello, pride
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Transgender Tourguide
One unexpected thing about being with a transgender person is that you get to become a transgender spokesperson as a side gig. At least that’s how it went for my husband and I. I find most folks that are not … Continue reading
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Tagged boundaries, cis-gendered, ftm, ftm marriage, ftm spouse, jello, marriage, questions
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A brief smile
Over the last couple years, I have learned what its like to be walking around publicly with my husband and have people go from seeing us as a heterosexual couple to a gay couple. The change was slow to happen, … Continue reading
Bathroom Bills
Another day, another bathroom bill, it seems. In my state, they keep swatting them down, but that’s because I’m in a liberal place. I could be in some place like North Carolina. It’s a big issue, because if you are … Continue reading
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Tagged anxiety, discrimination, ftm, jello, transphobia, worries
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