Tag Archives: homophobia

A Barbershop Encounter

Posted on May 3, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

Last week Wolsey and I had a very awkward encounter at the barber shop after work (yes I said an actual barber shop, ran by two very nice Asian ladies). We were both sitting there in the two chairs when … Continue reading →

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Deal Breaker

Posted on November 21, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I have been thinking about the election for the last week and a half. I have listened to the excuses that Trump voters gave for their vote. The constant bemoaning that they aren’t racist, sexist, homophobic bigots, and these qualities … Continue reading →

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In support of Safety Pins

Posted on November 15, 2016 by Wolsey

I’ve seen a lot of posts about the safety pin as a symbol of allyship. Even the New York Times has been talking about it. http://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/14/fashion/safety-pin-ally-activism.html?_r=0 However, not everyone is okay with this, seeing it as more straight white allyship … Continue reading →

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Small Reactions

Posted on August 16, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I am still amazed sometimes at the different reactions that Wolsey and I get now that he has transitioned. Specifically when I refer to us being together for so long. This usually occurs when we are getting food and order … Continue reading →

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Is it different now?

Posted on July 17, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I have always been a gamer. I love video games, tabletop miniature games and especially running roleplaying games. I have done the first and last (video and roleplaying) my entire life. The needed pieces for those games is easy to … Continue reading →

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You are so great!

Posted on July 10, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I never thought I would say it, but I hate any variation of “you are so great”, “you are so patient”, or just about any other phrase that someone makes saying how great a person I am for staying with … Continue reading →

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Anxiety at new heights!

Posted on November 18, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

Jello is officially two thirds of the way through his initial training. He heads out for his final two weeks in about 10 days, and it is making me super anxious.   Don’t get me wrong, he is a smart … Continue reading →

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Uncomfortable Day

Posted on June 2, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

I realize I haven’t been around for awhile. The blog isn’t dead, there are no home problems. I am just entering the last couple of weeks before my review, where my agency decides if I am made of the “right … Continue reading →

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A little uncomfortable

Posted on April 15, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

Trigger Warning: There will be mention of specific transphobic slurs in this post. Please don’t proceed if you might be triggered. This is a very very short post, but it’s setting up for future posts. I have been at my … Continue reading →

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Outing Update

Posted on January 8, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

I have a quick update about my last post (First Outing). My coworkers all returned from vacation and we got to talk for awhile. The lady who kept misgendering Jello actually apologized. She said she had been drinking quite a … Continue reading →

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