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Small Reactions

Posted on August 16, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I am still amazed sometimes at the different reactions that Wolsey and I get now that he has transitioned. Specifically when I refer to us being together for so long. This usually occurs when we are getting food and order … Continue reading →

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Gendered Doorways

Posted on August 8, 2016 by Wolsey

I am bad at doors. I’ve always had some weird issues with doors previous to my transition, but it’s a lot worse now. Let’s be clear, I am a capable human, and can walk through a door, but when you … Continue reading →

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Parents and Pronouns

Posted on July 29, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

My mom passed away this week on my parents 46th wedding anniversary due to long term health concerns and a broken heart (my father passed away in February just a couple days before Valentine’s Day). Both were on hospice for … Continue reading →

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How We Met

Posted on July 23, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

(Wolsey and I talked, and thought it would be easier to refer to him with feminine pronouns. It helps paint the picture of what he presented as, and how I’d have interpreted his gender back when we met. This was … Continue reading →

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Is it different now?

Posted on July 17, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I have always been a gamer. I love video games, tabletop miniature games and especially running roleplaying games. I have done the first and last (video and roleplaying) my entire life. The needed pieces for those games is easy to … Continue reading →

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You are so great!

Posted on July 10, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I never thought I would say it, but I hate any variation of “you are so great”, “you are so patient”, or just about any other phrase that someone makes saying how great a person I am for staying with … Continue reading →

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I get it…

Posted on June 27, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

Definitely check out Wolsey’s post, he did a better job at this :). I get it… I mean, I always got what the whole Gay Pride thing in June was, and especially the Seattle Pride parade was about, but I … Continue reading →

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2016 Pride Seattle

Posted on June 27, 2016 by Wolsey

This year marked the first year that I have ever gone to a pride parade. My friends, Lisa and Vince, brought us with them. Honestly, Lisa did the planning, and my husband and I arrived at their house at the … Continue reading →

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Telling mom

Posted on June 21, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I was going through some old posts, and I realized I had mentioned briefly the phone call my dad had with me when Wolsey first came out (see post at https://accidentallygay.com/2013/10/09/unexpected-support/). I do have more to follow up on that, … Continue reading →

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Just a general update

Posted on June 13, 2016 by AccidentallyGay

I just wanted to give you folks a general update of life. I think for now I will avoid the Orlando attack as a subject until my internal thought process cools down. There are far more eloquent people who are … Continue reading →

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