Tag Archives: transphobia

The quiet reality of social stigma

Posted on March 13, 2016 by Wolsey

When you are the living embodiment of a social stigma for a vocal part of society, things can get weird. It not only gets weird for you, but for your loved ones. Being transgender is a social stigma for a … Continue reading →

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Anxiety at new heights!

Posted on November 18, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

Jello is officially two thirds of the way through his initial training. He heads out for his final two weeks in about 10 days, and it is making me super anxious.   Don’t get me wrong, he is a smart … Continue reading →

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Uncomfortable Day

Posted on June 2, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

I realize I haven’t been around for awhile. The blog isn’t dead, there are no home problems. I am just entering the last couple of weeks before my review, where my agency decides if I am made of the “right … Continue reading →

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A little uncomfortable

Posted on April 15, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

Trigger Warning: There will be mention of specific transphobic slurs in this post. Please don’t proceed if you might be triggered. This is a very very short post, but it’s setting up for future posts. I have been at my … Continue reading →

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Outing Update

Posted on January 8, 2015 by AccidentallyGay

I have a quick update about my last post (First Outing). My coworkers all returned from vacation and we got to talk for awhile. The lady who kept misgendering Jello actually apologized. She said she had been drinking quite a … Continue reading →

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OkCupid Wha?

Posted on October 7, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Just a brief bit of background, Jello and I have been on and off poly for most of our marriage. I haven’t found anyone I really want to split my time with him with, but it is always a possibility. … Continue reading →

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Atlanta Observations 1

Posted on September 28, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

The second week at my new job, I had to travel down to Atlanta Georgia in August for a week of “onboarding” training. I spent the week down there in a large city that was perhaps the most anti-LGBTA that … Continue reading →

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Awkward Moment

Posted on September 21, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

This morning Jello and I went to IHOP. We have just moved to our new place, and this is our real first meal out. We showed up and it was semi-crowded with the early morning Sunday crowd. The young man … Continue reading →

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Unlearning privilege

Posted on July 3, 2014 by AccidentallyGay

Last Sunday Jello and I went to a local breakfast place for a nice Sunday breakfast. The last time we had been there was a couple years ago (long before Jello’s transition started). We got out of the car and … Continue reading →

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