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Unnecessary Anxiety

Posted on December 14, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I have to admit there has been a bit of anxiety when it came to the prospect of sex after Jello started taking T. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think logically there would be any difference, but I emotionally … Continue reading →

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First shot of T

Posted on December 8, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

My husband got his first shot of T last Friday. I am both excited and proud, yet a little bit sad/worried. We uploaded a video of the shot. I am very happy. His anxiety has decreased, he has been smiling … Continue reading →

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Silent Partner

Posted on November 29, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

First, before I get into my post, I want to make clear that my husband Jello is supportive of me. He sometimes is overwhelmed with his own situation of school, health and transition and that I understand. Sometimes he is … Continue reading →

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Uncomfortable feelings

Posted on November 17, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Earlier this week I came home from work and found Jello giving away his old clothes when he dressed like a girl. He looked surprised and said that he felt bad that I caught him giving them to our friend … Continue reading →

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New Job interactions

Posted on November 12, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I started my  new job last week and I came across a new situation. How do I refer to my husband to my new coworkers since he hasn’t begun to transition yet? In my prior job from over a year … Continue reading →

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21st Anniversary

Posted on October 31, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Today is the 21st wedding anniversary with my partner Jello. I started out heterosexual and marrying a woman in 1992, and 21 years later I am in a gay relationship with a spectacular man named Jello. All the same person. … Continue reading →

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Unexpected Support

Posted on October 9, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

First, I want to just say that my parents (Jello’s in-laws) have been supportive of his decision to transition. However, no matter how supportive they have been, I hadn’t expected this call. About three nights ago I got a call … Continue reading →

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Working out boundaries

Posted on October 5, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I realize my post from earlier today was a bit maudlin, but I would like to say we had a great conversation overall with Jello. Another portion of that conversation I had with Jello in the car from Ikea was … Continue reading →

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Gut Punch

Posted on October 5, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Getting to know my husband’s new look one day at a time excites me. I realize I already deeply know the innermost secrets of him, but his look is new and slowly changing. I think he is a hot guy. … Continue reading →

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Another Nagging Anxiety

Posted on October 3, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I have never had a lot of self-confidence in things. I have always believed I am not worth the same as those around me and I tend to want to give things I have to others because I tend to … Continue reading →

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