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DoD Human Resources
For the last year and a half we have had a running battle with Group Health over his gender designation. Don’t get me wrong they have covered everything so far for his transition, but no matter what we do his … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged encounters, events, healthcare, work
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A Change in Demographic Data
This week was the first time ever that I had to select the box of being in “same sex” marriage and that I was officially in the LGBTA community. In fact this happened twice. Not that anything suddenly changed this week, … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged anxiety, demisexuality, healthcare, privilege, sexuality, work
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Some Top Surgery Thoughts
Things are going great with Jello’s surgery. He is looking FANTASTIC. It has been a little over 8 weeks since he had it and the chest is healed up well. The liposuction on the hips and belly are a bit … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged breasts, events, healthcare, inappropriate behavior, top surgery, transition
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Surgery Worries
I’ve been moving towards surgery since I started testosterone in 2014. It was an inevitable closure for me, and my goals for transition. John Cena is not representative of how I actually look. As such, there has been a bit … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Jello's Articles
Tagged anxiety, events, healthcare, jello, transition
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Into surgery
Hubby waiting for surgery.
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged events, healthcare, photos, surgery, transition
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Surgery Eve
We are on the eve of Jello’s surgery (more exciting than Christmas Eve). It is time for his chest reconstruction. Things are so hectic right now (father was in and out of ICU, work stresses, etc) that it didn’t really … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged anxiety, dr mangubat, events, healthcare, surgery, transition
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Holidays
Christmas has never gone well in our household. In the beginning (and for many years) Jello and I were expected to show up at two households (not quite true, my parents only asked we show at one holiday during the … Continue reading
Posted in All Articles, Lucky's Articles (AG)
Tagged events, family, healthcare, holidays, jello's parents, transition, xmas
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Possible Good News
I know it has been a while folks, sorry about that. I have a possible update on the transgender care for my federal health insurance. It doesn’t come from where you think it might though. As a federal employee who … Continue reading
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Tagged DoD, fehb, healthcare, Media Coverage, news, OPM, work
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Slowly up the ladder
This week my issues with my insurance has been moving up the ladder. I first want to say locally all my management has been very supportive. Whether or not they are actually ok with it, they have been nothing but publicly … Continue reading
EEO Update
Friday I did it, I finally issued the EEO complaint. My manager was incredibly supportive. He was disappointed to hear it wasn’t an issue the state could get involved with. He was glad I gave him a heads up because … Continue reading
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Tagged discrimination, eeo, events, healthcare, job, work
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