Category Archives: Lucky’s Articles (AG)

We have a date

Posted on March 26, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

The trip down to Phoenix went smoothly. It started super early (4am the day before) and included visiting a couple of restaurants, staying in a decent hotel and seeing a desert for the first time in almost 30 years (actually … Continue reading →

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Pre-Consult Quiet

Posted on March 19, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

I realize I had been fairly quiet lately. Wolsey’s consult has been this weird, stressful, yet exciting thing coming up on the calendar. Originally we were going to do this consult in a year. That seemed like a good bit … Continue reading →

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The Beard

Posted on March 6, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

The beard has always been a squeamish point with Wolsey’s transition. I don’t know why, maybe because it’s the ultimate masculine outlook, or maybe I just don’t like the idea of kissing a beard. Either way, that has always been … Continue reading →

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Safer State

Posted on February 26, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

The last 40 days or so has been a nightmare. Every time I glance through the news feeds I am fed horrendous stories of everything from walls, to immigration, to ties with Russia. It has been horrific. I have avoided … Continue reading →

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Busy February

Posted on February 15, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

This is it, it has been a year since Wolsey had his chest lumps removed. We thought things were going to settle down and maybe recover from the hellish period that was (his surgery and my father’s passing just caused … Continue reading →

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Change in surgery plans

Posted on January 31, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

In the following post I know I will use the term “we” and it’s a bit like in a heterosexual relationship the guy says “we are pregnant”. However, it is hard not to think of it as we so I … Continue reading →

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Family Trees

Posted on January 23, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

I can tell that both Wolsey and I are getting old. Last week Wolsey and I decided we wanted to work on our family trees. Both of us only know scattered things about our families, since both of our fathers … Continue reading →

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Bad Old Lady!

Posted on January 16, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

It happened, it finally happened! Wolsey got misgendered for the first time in over a year and a half. It wasn’t even because he “looked” like a woman, but because of heteronormative society expectations. We ended up having to go … Continue reading →

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More changes

Posted on January 15, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

Bottom surgery has always been on the table for Wolsey. When he first came out to me he wasn’t sure if he wanted it, but he had asked if I would be ok with. I told him that of course … Continue reading →

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More work stuff.

Posted on January 8, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

I should quit assuming most conservative people are capable of logical thought. Maybe they aren’t nice people, maybe they have repugnant views, but at least in the workplace they should keep it to themselves. Thursday another uncomfortable conversation come up. … Continue reading →

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