Tag Archives: transgender

Silent Partner

Posted on November 29, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

First, before I get into my post, I want to make clear that my husband Jello is supportive of me. He sometimes is overwhelmed with his own situation of school, health and transition and that I understand. Sometimes he is … Continue reading →

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Uncomfortable feelings

Posted on November 17, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Earlier this week I came home from work and found Jello giving away his old clothes when he dressed like a girl. He looked surprised and said that he felt bad that I caught him giving them to our friend … Continue reading →

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New Job interactions

Posted on November 12, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I started my  new job last week and I came across a new situation. How do I refer to my husband to my new coworkers since he hasn’t begun to transition yet? In my prior job from over a year … Continue reading →

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21st Anniversary

Posted on October 31, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Today is the 21st wedding anniversary with my partner Jello. I started out heterosexual and marrying a woman in 1992, and 21 years later I am in a gay relationship with a spectacular man named Jello. All the same person. … Continue reading →

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Privilege

Posted on October 25, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

This post is the first in what will probably be a ton of posts about my privilege. I hadn’t even known the concept until just a year or two ago, and even now I am sometimes embarrassed by the privilege … Continue reading →

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Another Hubbie Repost

Posted on October 21, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

My hubbie posted this yesterday. We went to Geek Girl Con and had some interesting reactions. Will probably post more later about the con, it was great to see so many genderfluid people. http://theocraticjello.tumblr.com/post/64655141284/im-not-crossplaying It is about his experience in … Continue reading →

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One of My Husband’s FTM Article

Posted on October 16, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

My husband wrote an insightful article, I can’t recommend it enough. It is about the privilege he gained when transitioning from a woman to a man. http://feministhivemind.com/?p=925   edit (12/8/14): It looks like feministhivemind lost their articles and had to … Continue reading →

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Unexpected Support

Posted on October 9, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

First, I want to just say that my parents (Jello’s in-laws) have been supportive of his decision to transition. However, no matter how supportive they have been, I hadn’t expected this call. About three nights ago I got a call … Continue reading →

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Working out boundaries

Posted on October 5, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

I realize my post from earlier today was a bit maudlin, but I would like to say we had a great conversation overall with Jello. Another portion of that conversation I had with Jello in the car from Ikea was … Continue reading →

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Gut Punch

Posted on October 5, 2013 by AccidentallyGay

Getting to know my husband’s new look one day at a time excites me. I realize I already deeply know the innermost secrets of him, but his look is new and slowly changing. I think he is a hot guy. … Continue reading →

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