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Category Archives: Jello’s Articles
Background Radiation
Here is a general snapshot of the news I look at every day. I looked at all this yesterday within three hours of waking up. I don’t do it to be depressed. I just happen to read a lot of … Continue reading
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Transgender Day of Remembrance 2016
Transgender day of Remembrance is today. It’s a day to remember all of the transgender people that are murdered throughout the year. This year 295 transgender and gender diverse individuals were murdered. 23 (some other sites report 24) of those … Continue reading
In support of Safety Pins
I’ve seen a lot of posts about the safety pin as a symbol of allyship. Even the New York Times has been talking about it. http://www.nytimes.com/2016/11/14/fashion/safety-pin-ally-activism.html?_r=0 However, not everyone is okay with this, seeing it as more straight white allyship … Continue reading
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Tagged anxiety, ftm, homophobia, jello, transphobia
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Diversity versus “Diversity”
We had diversity day at my job. I work for a giant government agency, and they do this once a year. My job is pretty positive if you are of the LGBT flavor. We have a lot of us in … Continue reading
Gendered Doorways
I am bad at doors. I’ve always had some weird issues with doors previous to my transition, but it’s a lot worse now. Let’s be clear, I am a capable human, and can walk through a door, but when you … Continue reading
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Tagged ftm, gender, gender expectations, Gendered Expectations, jello, privilege
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2016 Pride Seattle
This year marked the first year that I have ever gone to a pride parade. My friends, Lisa and Vince, brought us with them. Honestly, Lisa did the planning, and my husband and I arrived at their house at the … Continue reading
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Acceptance
It’s the little things I went to lunch with work folks last week. I’m often asked to lunch by different folks in my immediate office. This translates to me eating out an awful lot. It’s terrible for my waistband, but … Continue reading
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Transgender Tourguide
One unexpected thing about being with a transgender person is that you get to become a transgender spokesperson as a side gig. At least that’s how it went for my husband and I. I find most folks that are not … Continue reading
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Tagged boundaries, cis-gendered, ftm, ftm marriage, ftm spouse, jello, marriage, questions
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Bathroom Bills
Another day, another bathroom bill, it seems. In my state, they keep swatting them down, but that’s because I’m in a liberal place. I could be in some place like North Carolina. It’s a big issue, because if you are … Continue reading
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Tagged anxiety, discrimination, ftm, jello, transphobia, worries
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The quiet reality of social stigma
When you are the living embodiment of a social stigma for a vocal part of society, things can get weird. It not only gets weird for you, but for your loved ones. Being transgender is a social stigma for a … Continue reading
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Tagged ftm, ftm spouse, jello, passing, transgender, transphobia, work
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