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25th Anniversary

Posted on October 31, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

Twenty-five years ago, my husband looked at me and said “I do”. I thought that would be the happiest moment of my life, but it wasn’t. Instead, today is the happiest moment of my life, and each day is just … Continue reading →

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On the Visibility of Harassment

Posted on October 16, 2017 by Wolsey

The Harvey Weinstein issue has been hitting the front page of the internet, and I have been reading a lot of reactions to men who say they didn’t see it. Because I lived for 40 years as a woman and … Continue reading →

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Rough few weeks

Posted on October 15, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

I have been quiet the last couple weeks because of many things. First, I broke my foot a week ago last Tuesday in a stupid cubicle fall at work. It wasn’t my worst experience but that knocked me out for … Continue reading →

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Changes with authorship

Posted on October 14, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

Just letting everyone know that Jello has not left the blog, but with the publishing of the book coming up he decided to coalesce his online presence and now Jello writes under “The Wolsey Blog”. Same wonderful husband, same awesome … Continue reading →

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Unisex Bathrooms

Posted on October 2, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

This post is only tangentially related to LGBTQIA, but I figure it may be beneficial to any trans*men who are transitioning and haven’t gotten much experience in traditional men’s bathrooms. This last Saturday I went to Geek Girl Con. A … Continue reading →

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Some uncomfortable thoughts

Posted on September 24, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

I want to tell other partners of transitioning people that it is absolutely normal to miss your partner’s pre-transition form. They were part of you before the transition and they were shaped like that when you got with them. In … Continue reading →

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TMI: Intimacy now

Posted on September 17, 2017 by Wolsey

I figure I have gotten enough PM questions that I can give a general overview of things, but don’t worry there aren’t any gruesome details. I also have some more future thoughts I want to write about, and I think … Continue reading →

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Being an out Transgender Man at Work

Posted on September 8, 2017 by deadaccount22

I haven’t written an article for a while. I’ve been occupied by my job and my surgeries. However, I was listening to the Nancy podcast, and they had a prompt for what it’s like being out of the closet at … Continue reading →

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Final Appeal

Posted on August 31, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

We finally got notice from OPM (federal government human resources basically) saying they received our final appeal and will give us an answer in 60 days. Sadly this is about 14 days after we have to make payment and we … Continue reading →

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It keeps getting rougher.

Posted on August 27, 2017 by AccidentallyGay

A lot of things have been happening, lots of little things, and I think I will just address them individually. So right now I will start with the most angry/frustrating thing I can think of. Trump’s ban on transgender in … Continue reading →

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